How to manage relationship problems

Everyone has to face problems in their relationships. All people try their best to solve their problems but still, it remains to exist in the relationships. The author tries to understand these fundamental problems that later become worse in their relationships. These problems occur due to fundamental dissimilarities between the two opposite sexes. If you are also one of them who have the problems in understanding their relationships with the opposite sex. It is never too late to increase love in your life. You only need to learn a new way. Whether you are in therapy or not, if you want to have more fulfilling relationships with the opposite sex, this article is for you. Through this article, you not only help you to understand the universal problems but also help to how to handle their relationships successfully. After reading this, I am sure that you will learn how to motivate the opposite sex, discovering our emotional needs, avoiding arguments, asking for support and keeping the magic of love alive. This also offers you practical tips to reduce disappointment and frustration in relations. The author aims at helping couples understand each other in the easiest possible way.

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 Lets us start the journey of a happy, peaceful and progressive life.

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1.  Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

The author starts the journey with this amazing thought Mars are from Mars, Women are from Venus. The author chooses this thought because we need to start believing that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. According to the author, one day, men from Mars discovered women in Venus and fall in love with them. They started living happily in Venus. A time came when both men and women returned to Earth but their relationships are changed now. Since after, the conflicts begin between them. This occurs because both the men and women forget that they are fundamentally different from each other. 

This is the biggest cause of their conflicts and misunderstanding between them. They start assuming that their partner will behave in the same way as we behave. Instead of assuming, we should remember the truth that both men are women are assumed to be different. In this way, you can avoid your relationships to be filled with unnecessary conflicts.

Love is magical, and it can last, if we remember our differences.

2. Mr. Fix-It and the Home-Improvement Committee

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 If we talk about the Martians (men), they are interested in expressing themselves with their results because this is the system of Mars. They are more interested in "objects" and "things" rather than people and feeling. They love to achieve those things in life which fancy them. They have the habit of solving their problems on their own and giving solutions to other people who have problems. They do not like to accept the solutions of others.

If we talk about the Venusians (women), their happiness and success are subjective matters. They love to express and share their feelings. They feel fulfillment and happiness when they communicate about their problems and happy moments. They love to help each other.

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There is the two most common mistake we make in relationships which become the reasons of their conflicts that worse their relationships:

• A man tries to change a woman's feelings when she is upset by becoming Mr. Fix-It and giving solutions to her problems that invalidate her feelings.
• A woman tries to change a man's behavior when he makes mistakes by becoming the home-improvements committee and offering unsolicited advice or criticism. 

 In order to avoid the above discussed common mistakes, men need to remember that when women seem upset and talk about problems is not the time to offer solutions instead she needs to be heard and she will feel better on her own. She does not need to be fixed. On the other hand, women need to remember that unsolicited advice or criticism when he made a mistake made him feel unloved. He only needs her acceptance more than advice. In this way, it is easier for both the partners to understand each other and become more supportive.

3. Men go to their Caves and Women Talk

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This is one of the basic difference between men and women is how they cope with stress. Men feel better by solving their problems while women feel better by talking about their problems. By understanding and accepting these basic differences, you can avoid unnecessary frictions in your life. In order to avoid such mistakes, men need to learn that they should listen when women share their problems.

4. How to Motivate the Opposite Sex

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Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed. But when a man does not feel needed in a relationship, he becomes passive and less energized. But on the other hand, women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished. When a woman does not feel cherished in a relationship, she feels exhausted. In order to motivate the opposite sex, women should try to appreciate men for his efforts and men should try to feel her caring and respecting nature.

5. Men are like a rubber band and women are like a wave

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These are the basic personality of every men and woman. Generally, men are like a rubber band and need some space in their life while they are in a relationship. After getting some space, they feel relaxed.

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But women are like a wave which very frequently change their mood of feelings. When women are getting love and happiness in their life then their waves are at peak level but in the opposite, these waves are crashed at the time of depression. It creates problems for both men and women due to misinterpretations. Both men and women should not take it seriously as it is natural for both of them. In this way, you can understand the opposite sex in a better way.

6. How to avoid arguments

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It is necessary to avoid arguments because, at the time of arguing with the partner, we are not able to focus on the topic but on the tone of voice. Because of this, both partners are not able to discuss it properly. Usually, the arguments occur when men find that women are not helping them in improving but women argue when she finds that her partner is not giving him proper attention. In order to avoid arguments, both men and women should solve their problems softly and in a respectful manner so that both are able to put their points in front of others easily. 

Conclusion

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After reading the whole contents,  I am sure that you have learned how to motivate the opposite sex, discovering our emotional needs, avoiding arguments, asking for support and keeping the magic of love alive. In this way, it not only improve your relationships with the opposite sex but also helps you to avoid unnecessary frictions in your relationships. What I have told you above is from the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".

At last

Love is a game that two can play and both can win. - Eva Gabor